I am writing this because I am tired of not having a voice. I am a word warrior, like my Ancestors: Red Jacket, Old Smoke, Brant and Johnson; though I am not a great orator. Their spoken words were written down and still echo peace and stir our minds today. My voice is too soft and too gentle to confront the energies of hatred and discrimination I am experiencing now in this world. But I do write and these are the words I fight with. I pray to Creator that I speak my truth in a good way, concisely and peacefully. And that my words go straight like an arrow to the hearts of those who would do great harm to me and all my human relations; not to kill them but so that their hearts may be stirred and changed in a good way. Ta’ho!
This picture is of We’wah, a Zuni Nadleeh or Wintke. Essentially We’wah was a transgender woman and a respected diplomat for the people, who traveled to Washington and London as a cultural ambassador. Yes, We’wah wore a dress. Yes, she used the ladies “powder room”. No, the world did not end. And no, no one was molested. No one among the high societies in Washington and England knew that she had been born a boy but from a very young age, lived her life freely among the people as a beautiful and peaceful female. Just like the over 700,000 transgender persons living in the United States today.
Later, it was learned that We’wah had male genitals but even then, she was not regulated, nor was a public statement made on the state of her gender. Maybe they were much more progressive back then? Or maybe they just minded their own business and did not find the need to legislate genitals like the recent and on-going so-called “bathroom bills” do today.
Know your own history. Exclusion is not a Traditional value. Decolonize your mind. You have already peed next to a transgender person in a public restroom, sat next to one, danced in the same circle with someone who was not born male or female, or even showered in the same room with a transgender person; and you may even know and respect someone whom you do not know is transgender right now. I guarantee this. And the world did not end. And no one got sexually assaulted or beat up.
In truth, this is an extended urban myth started to marginalize an already-marginalized segment of society. I have researched the “bathroom rape” myth. I found exactly two incidents, one in 2012 and one in 2014, one each in Canada and in the United States. Only two! (To put that number in perspective: there are approximately 700,000 transgender poeple in the US population and they have never assaulted anyone in a public restroom.) In these instances, an already sexually-deranged man gained entry to a women’s bathroom by wearing women’s clothes, and filmed women using the toilet. Their defense was that they were “transgender” and using the correct restroom. I know, that is your nightmare come true. But, these men were already convicted sex offenders. They had already proven that they had no regard for the laws protecting women in or out of these spaces. They would have offended again anyway, and they thanked the media for the suggestion to use the “transgender” ruse to gain entry to women’s spaces.
The truth is, no amount of regulation and laws protects women from criminals. By definition, criminals have no regard for the law, or signs on restrooms. When a law is made to regulate a small margin of society by a panicked and uninformed legislature, no one is in fact safer. It is the same with alarmist gun laws. Reactionary laws only seek to regulate law-abiding citizens, and criminals in no way obey laws. On the contrary, when I hear folks say that they must protect their women and children from transgender persons using the restroom, they may in fact, be attacking an innocent person who has no intention of harming anyone, and they just want to pee and not get beat up! Because that is a far-more likely scenario than a “bathroom rapist”. (Approximately 63,000 transgender persons are assaulted yearly in the US, and an average of 350 murdered worldwide.)
These laws do not regulate sexually-appropriate use of the facilities; they in fact, only regulate appearance. They do not make anyone safer; they just rob ordinary citizens of their dignity and right-to-privacy. Already, there have been reports of short-haired women who appeared “too masculine” using the restroom of their proper gender and causing alarm, and ultimately humiliation as they were escorted out in error. And these alarmist laws are entirely un-enforceable: they are civil, not criminal offenses, with no real consequences built into the law. Police officers in North Carolina are scratching their heads; they do not enforce civil law. We cannot and we should not send our best police officers to stand outside public restrooms checking everyone’s birth certificates while I guarantee that as I write these words, a child or a woman is being raped in her home or on the street by a man-who-appears-to-be-a-man. And who is gonna inspect genitals to make sure all these people are in the right facility? Do you want your child’s teacher or principal to do so? Shall we post a guard at each public restroom and all drop trow before entering? Maybe if we all just wore armbands or patches on our clothes declaring the shape of our genitals, this hysteria would cease?! No one is safer at all with these “bathroom laws”; they are in fact, just more scared. And so am I.
And since Bill HB2 & similar bills across the nation, crisis calls from Transgender persons to the Trans Suicide Hotline that I financially support (run for & operated by Trans people & their allies) have doubled. So I am just gonna leave this sceenshot here. You gotta give’em hope!
(C) henry francis redhouse, 2016. Artwork is property of its respective owners.